Don't make these BIG mistakes during your Family Portraits at the Temple in Dallas Texas!

It's one of the top priorities for the majority of my wedding couples on their wedding day: capturing family photos.

However, getting quality family photos can also be one of the most dreaded moments of the day due to the following factors:

1- Everyone was just sitting around for an hour (or more) while the wedding ceremony occurred, which means a lot of fidgety, hungry kids and adults;

2-All these people are going to be asked to stand still, usually in extreme weather, and sometimes in uncomfortable clothes;

3- Some stranger is going to boss them around for who knows how long!

If that doesn't sound like a recipe for disaster I don't know what is! And the problem is MOST wedding couples and photographers don't do anything to address those factors which is why most people DREAD this part of the wedding day.

But here's the thing, family photos aren't supposed to be awful - I mean, there's a reason why people want them at EVERY wedding. They're an important reminder of all the individuals who LOVE and SUPPORT you. So instead of torturing all of your loved ones let's make this time of the day a fun, memorable one with these 3 tips:

1- Please don't take all your photos at the Temple; keep the photo list to a minimum

Before the big day, make a list of the photo groups you want—starting with the largest and working down to smaller groups (immediate family, grandparents, siblings, etc.).

• Include names, not just roles (e.g., “Bride with parents: John and Lisa,” not just “bride’s parents”)

• Send this list to your photographer ahead of time

• Assign someone who knows both families to help call out names

Having a list & someone to help the photographer get people in/out of photos will help streamline the process the day of so your family doesn't have to wait around as long for their turn to get their photo with you two.

*Pro Tip*: Keep the list to 10–15 photos. This will keep your family photos to 30 minutes long - the perfect length! If any other family photos are desired you can always get them at the reception.

2- Don't forget to send out a reminder about pictures at the Temple the day before!

If you want your family & friends to wear specific clothes/colors for your photos don't forget to send them a reminder to wear those items to the Temple. Without the reminder, I can guarantee you SOMEONE will forget to come all ready dressed in the outfits you choose/requested.

*Pro Tip*: Let your family/friends know how long pictures will be and share the list with them ahead of time so they know which pictures they are needed for.

3- Don't ask your family to take pictures in the sun; be flexible on Location

I know everyone's preference is in front of the temple (I mean, it is definitely the most beautiful spot) BUT, if it's the middle of the day, and the sun is shining bright we HAVE to follow the shade so that your family's photos don't come out with everyone looking like they've got raccoon eyes (i.e. dark circles from the shadows cast by the harsh light). This will mean we're either shooting against the side of the building (under the arches), or on the stairs. If you have a preferred spot make sure to let your photographer know!

*Pro Tip*: Sealings at the beginning of the day, or later in the afternoon will have the best lighting for family, wedding party & couple portraits. The most challenging time for pictures is between 12pm-3pm - we can do still do them, but we will be limited on where we can go.

4- Don't let your family get dehydrated; assign someone to bring water and snacks

No matter what time of year you're taking pictures people are going to be hungry & thirsty after your wedding ceremony. To help everyone be in a good mood bring a case of water bottles (*brownie points* if they're brought in a cooler with ice), and an easy snack like granola bars/goldfish (not too messy, and all ages enjoy them).

5- Lastly, don't sweat the small stuff

Remember, these family pictures are just one part of a much larger celebration — so even if something goes awry (whether it's the weather, an upset family member, mis matchched clothing, etc); it will only affect you if you let it. Remember, you have complete control only of your own attitude. If you & your spouse keep a calm, positive attitude that will set the tone for everyone else.

• So laugh when things don’t go exactly as planned

• Thank your family for being there

• Remember: you will cherish these photos forever

The family photos you take after your wedding at the temple in Dallas Texas are more than just pictures—they're a celebration of your eternal family and the people who have come to share their love with, and support of, you. With a little preparation and the right mindset, you can make the experience smooth, respectful, and even fun for everyone involved.