
As a family photographer, the most rewarding moments of my job occurs when I'm able to capture genuine smiles and playful interactions (as well as those heartfelt, spontaneous moments) with my youngest clients. It'd be easy to say a great photographer is the one to help orchestrate such moments, but did you know that the groundwork for getting those perfect shots often starts long before your family even gets in front of the camera?
I know, as a parent that when you're preparing for a family photoshoot, it can feel like a bit of a balancing act. How do you get your kids to cooperate while still letting them be themselves? And how do you ensure everyone is relaxed and having fun? Well, to help you out, I've put together some of my TOP TIPS that will make your next family photoshoot run more smoothly and be more enjoyable, both for you and your kids.

1. Talk About the Photoshoot in a Positive Way
Kids are much more likely to enjoy the experience if they know what to expect. Rather than making it sound like a chore (“We have to go take pictures for the family”), try to frame it as something fun!
You can say things like,
"We're going to take some beautiful family pictures, and we get to wear nice clothes and have fun!"
"We're going on an adventure and Ms Sarah is going to lead the way!"
Let them know it’s an opportunity to be together and have a bit of fun with it. If you can, show them a few of your favorite family photos from previous sessions to get them excited about the idea.

2. Keep Their Comfort in Mind When Choosing Outfits
Having your kids in outfits that they’re comfortable in is key. If your child doesn’t want to wear a stiff shirt or uncomfortable shoes, it’s going to be hard to get that relaxed, natural smile. I always recommend sticking with soft fabrics, comfortable shoes, and clothes that are age-appropriate and reflect your family's style.
If you're planning on coordinating outfits, make sure everyone feels good in what they’re wearing, and don’t forget to consider the location! If it’s an outdoor shoot, think about the weather, and if it's a studio shoot, maybe avoid anything too constricting.
One trick I’ve seen work well with younger kids is letting them choose one accessory or piece of clothing that makes them feel special. It could be a fun hat, a favorite scarf, or even a pair of cool socks. It gives them a sense of autonomy and makes them feel more excited to be a part of the process.

3. Plan the Shoot Around Their Energy Levels
You know your kids' energy levels throughout the day. If they're typically in a great mood after nap time or other part of the day, let's schedule your photoshoot around those times. Tired or hungry kids don’t usually bring their best energy to a photoshoot.
Make sure to have a snack and some water available during breaks, and keep in mind that kids might need a few minutes to adjust to the environment, especially if it's a new location.

4. Get Them Involved in the Process
Engage your kids before the shoot by asking them what kinds of pictures they might want to capture. Make sure to let your photographer know ahead of time so we can capture these photos first.
If your little one has a favorite game they like to play, like hide-and-seek or tag, ask them if they want to play that during the photoshoot! The more they feel involved in the planning, the more ownership they’ll feel, and the more fun they’ll have. And as much as you might want to get that classic "everyone-looking-at-the-camera" shot, don’t forget they need time for them to just be kids. Those candid moments often result in the most genuinely happy smiles for photos.
5. Bring a Bag of Tricks
Even if you’ve done everything right, there’s always a chance your child might get distracted, bored, or suddenly shy. As a photographer, I’m always prepared with a few tricks up my sleeve, but if you can bring along a small toy, treat, or a favorite blanket, that can keep bring their interest back to the photoshoot.
For older kids, a silly word, or shared memory can help bring out their personality. I also love when parents are ready to sing a song, make funny noises, or play peekaboo to get a child’s natural smile!
Also, make sure to praise your kids throughout the shoot. Positive reinforcement goes a long way! Compliment them on how great they’re doing, how wonderful their smile is, or how awesome their outfit looks. The more you celebrate their involvement, the more they’ll feel encouraged to keep up the energy and enjoy the moment.

As much as you prepare, family photoshoots can still be unpredictable. A toddler might throw a tantrum, an older child might get shy, or someone might feel a little awkward. That’s okay! I’m a pro at working around those moments, and a lot of the time, those unexpected emotions turn into some of the most endearing photos. If you feel like your kids need a break, take a few minutes to reset before jumping back into the shoot.
Just remember, getting your kids ready for a family photoshoot isn’t about perfection—it’s about making the experience enjoyable for everyone involved. When kids feel comfortable, supported, and even a little bit excited, you’ll get photos that truly reflect who you are as a family. And remember, no matter what happens, the most important thing is to have fun and make memories. The photos will capture the love and connection you share, no matter what poses or outfits you choose.
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